Just now my 3rd lovely son, Syafiq, fell asleep with a handphone at his ear. He always miss his papa everytime papa is not around. He will pick up papa's clothes, pants or kain pelikat that were laying around and said "papa...papa...". Sometimes he would wear and walk around in papa's cloth. When he saw papa's picture, he would cry aloud which I could feel it came from his small heart. Sometimes, he would pick up my handphone and said "papa.." when he feels like talking to papa.
Just now, he picked up my handphone and said "papa..". Knowing my hubby had no meeting this morning, I make a call and it's engaged. Syafiq would be sad if he can't talk to papa. I handed the handphone that gave the "beep..." sound to sooth him down. He lay down with my handphone at his ear and when he almost closed his eyes, papa called. Shocked and couldn't hold his tears anymore he just cried hearing his papa's voice. I said to my hubby to keep on talking, my hubby did until Syafiq fell to sleep....
One of my neighbours said that my hubby is the best father she ever met. I agree with her. Everytime my hubby comes home from work, he will play football, tagging game, hide and seek etc with our sons. I did ask him once " Tak letih ke?" He replied, "Anak-anak hanya kecil sekali sahaja, when they grow up, they won't play with me anymore. They will stay close to their mother but they will keep a distant from their father."
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Kalu mace tulah caranya,I agree with you too, mace dia dah baca satu post dlm blog aini/aida tak berapa lama dulu. Tapi Cy pun teringat, bila jumpa Da, hubby and anak2, hubby Da selalu tak biarkan anak-anak menangis dan mendukung mrk wp kaki mrk dah hampir nak cecah lantai..Kita yg tgk ni nampak mace dia manjakan sgt anak, tp ada benda lain yg nampak dgn jelas, besar k/sayangnya terhdp anak-anak..Moga berkekalan..Ganjaran Allah menanti buat ibu bapa yg kasihkan anak2 ni dan bersabar dgn tangisan/kerenah/kelakuan mrk.
touching nya. Now I feel like a bad mom sebab tak suka layan kerenah anak.
Ibu Wa Alim...my hubby byk sabar ngan anak2 berbanding ngan ida
Yasmin's mummy...me too...i have to remind myself every morning that i have to be a good mom since i'll be with them 24hrs a day
huhuhuh.. yang kite ni pulak jadi ibu hok bekeng.. adus, bedebush rasanya..
touching entry today
Tak here bab bekeng tu, mmg keturunan bekeng2 belaka nih! Tp bekeng bertempat kan..? Utk disiplinkan anak2 kan..? Ump..Cy pulak pening, nak bekeng ko nak lembut..?
aida...k.ida pun bekeng, kdg2 bertempat, kdg2 bila dah penat tak bertempat...lepas pegi 'khalifah parenting course' anjuran kindergarten anak2, alhamdulillah my anger management improve..
Ibu Wa Alim..bekeng penyakit keturunan...x pandai masak bukan penyakit keturunan ke? Semua pakat ngaku x pandai masak ni...
moga2 ambo xbekeng lor dgn bakal anak2 nati....insyaallah...tapi wife kawe bekeng jugok...kawe pun bekeng...takut anak bekeng pada kito...kuangkuangkuang.....
x pe...bekeng can be improved, makin usia meningkat makin wiser and insyaallah makin controllable...
Tak pandai masak ni penyakit ggapa pulak..? Mmalah kot..? Atau terlampau ambil mudah..? Atau ambil kesempatan atas kebaikan suami..? Bahaya ni..!
Tak pandai je masak, tapi hari2 masak cuma rasanya tak umpp! macam umi atau MIL. Kejap masak ok, hari lain x jadilak, gitula...hujung minggu kdg2 dptla restla dari memasak
Dulu2 kita org ckp mcm Ida ni la jugak, tp mok kata, umi tu okla masak sbb dah dok sentiasa masak/hari2 masak..jadi tgn dia dah biasa..garam byk mana..benda lain byk mana..
My DH pulak kata, masak pun kena ada keikhlasan..barula hasilnya ok..sbnrnya dia repeat apa yg Cy kata ttg masakan isteri kawan dia yg mmg pandai masak..dia suka masak dan panggil kawan2 makan.. masa suami dia kerja kat MRSM Taiping dulu dia suka jamu budak2 asrama tu makan..bkn ke ikhlas namonye tu..?
Kejam ke komen Cy yg sblm tu..? Sorryla..komen tu utk diri Cy sendiri juga tu..
ibu wa alim....komen tu tak kejam.. kalau 2/3 tahun lalu mungkin terasa 'libasan' komen tu, dulu memang gitu (mcm komen cy tu),nasib baik cy ungkit sekarang, takla terasa kat batang idung ni...pernah cakap kat hubby, org pompuan ni bukan malas masak, yang jadi malas tu bila bahan2 tak de atau tak de idea...
ikhlas?! Bila anak2 terpekik2 time kita masak memang hilang keikhlasan tu...
selamat datang ke alam blogging ;) Good writing, keep on sharing. "Life is a wonderful adventure or nothing at all.." (Helen Keller).
Cy kalu dah abih idea mula la buka buku2 resepi.. tak kira la buku resepi orient ke..? Amish ko..? Jewish pun tgk..kebetulan ada la juga buku2 resepi lagu tu kat rumah ni..tapi hak nak ssuka tu..buka punya buka..lps tu..tak ikut pun..sbb tak de bahan (currently) spt yg dikendaki ataupun caranya complicated..tp belek2 ni baik juga sbb ada idea utk modify resepi kita..
Mohammad..tq..
Ibu Wa Alim...ida pun suka sgt2 bukak buku resepi...abg amran punyala suka bila tgk ida belek2 buku resepi... bila dah selesai 'baca' buku resepi tu..dia tanya, "wah! mesti special masak hari ni..", ida kata tak de goreng ikan jer, bahan2 tak de..
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