25.11.08

From XXXL to XL: Part I

"Hints"

Berat:
13 July '08 63 kgs
31 August '08 60 kgs
21 Sept '08 - present 58 kgs

Ukurlilit:
Pinggang berkurangan 13 cm

Yes! I lost 5 kgs in two months. But before I share my secret, let's talk about hints from people around me..

Oden tau memang ramai pompuan bila masuk usia 30an mula mengeluh pasal masalah gemuk, masalah kulit dan masalah kesihatan. Oden mengalami ketiga2 masalah yang disebutkan di atas. Tapi, yang oden nak citer dulu ialah masalah overweight odenla suatu ketika dahulu (chewah mcm lama...).

Oden dah 8 tahun mendirikan, 7 tahun kahwin oden dianugerahkan 4 putera, '02, '03, '06, '07. Logikla kan nape badan oden ni bagai dipam2. Belum sempat oden mengempiskan perut, oden mengandung lagi. MIL cakap oden ni 'kerek' beranak, malu odennn...heheh... oden dengan hubby sama-sama subur kira masalah kesuburan melampaulah..

Well, ni oden nak mulakan citer bagaimana oden boleh tak sedar diri bahawasanya oden ni dah masuk kategori 'heavyweight'. Walaupun dah ramai kaum kerabat oden menegur termasuklah hubby kesayangan oden yang banyak kali memberi hint2 supaya mengurangkan lebihan lemak yang menonjol pada badan oden nih, tapi seriously oden tak rasa pun oden gemuk walaupun oden cukup menyampah tiap kali oden tengok perut oden yang dengan seronoknya landing kat atas riba oden.

Antara teguran yang oden terima:
Umi oden: "Uh! Uh! Uh! Perghut sama besar nga Umi!"
My Reply: "Oooo...anok umi tu gak.."

Adik pompuan oden: "K.Da jale gegar rumah2."
My Reply: "Maca gajoh deh..hehe." Both of us gelak..

Kakak Dr: "Banyoknyo mung make nasik"
No comment dan menghabiskan sisa2 nasi dalam pinggan.

Semasa pantang tak tau kenapa memang enjoy sgt2 makan nasik walaupun berlaukkan ikan masin...memang gemor ikan masin nih...ada masa bertambah:

Mok, masa pantang anak pertama, bila Mok nampak oden tambah nasik:
"Kalu ore dulu2, tok wi namboh nasik. Kalu nok make banyok, ambik banyok selalu."

Oden took Mok advise, pantang anak2 seterusnya, oden letak nasik byk2 dan pada pandangan oden masih sikit.
My Auntie, CN: "Banyok make nasik, dale pate, tok leh make banyok." Of course, I'll explain to my CN what Mok had told oden, memang tak ambik kisah betul oden nih.

Oden jugak ingat, auntie oden yang muda pernah ckp: "Ida berisi lepas beranak, masa ngandung kurus." Oh! Maksuku, mmg enjoy makan nasik ngan ikan kering tuh, itulah masalah yang menyebabkan badan oden naik setelah oden investigate napela oden naik berat badan.

Hubby oden banyak kali kasi hint dan seperti biasa oden memberi alasan, "Org bersalin ni yangggg.....ambik masa 2 years utk kurus balik, tapi takkan jadi body anak dara balikla." Tiap kali oden jumpa fakta yg mengatakan kesukaran org lepas bersalin kurus balik, cepat2 oden baca kat tepi hubby oden supaya hubby oden menerima oden seadanya walaupun oden tak pernah melakukan senaman dan terus membelasah nasik2 dalam pinggan oden, anak2 oden yang tak habis dan jugak kalau ada serpihan nasik kat dalam periuk, odenla yang menghabiskannya. Oden tak suka membazir, lagipun oden tak bela ayam itik yang kalau nasik tak habis bolehla ayam itik oden tolong habiskan.

Hint dari hubby oden ialah beli kasut sukan, oden pakai sekali atau dua kali. Pastu dok berkepuk kat tempat kasut. Hubby oden pernah gak cakap gini, "B, org pompuan tak takut ke kalau hubby dia tinggalkan atas sebab gemuk." Hubby oden nih memang cakap penuh kesopanan dan kesusilaan, rukunegara kelima tu dia pegang sangat2. Maklumla, dia kenal sangat2 perangai sensitif oden nih. Oden jawab simple jer, "Tok taula ore lain, tapi kalu sayo tok takut hubby tinggalkan sebab gemuk, tapi sebab perangai huduh sayo nih." hee...hee...menjawab lagi tu, memang tak leh masuk kategori isteri solehah betul...

Don't blame your hubby or other people when they commented on your weight, niatnya ikhlas, supaya kita sihat dan ceria and of course will boost your confident. Your hubby will support you throughout your journey to lost weight and the most important thing you'll be the most happiest person when that fat started to melt!

Sayang, I dah berjaya mengurangkan 5 kgs, tak de hadiah ke? Coklat ke or celebrate makan2..hehehe.. makan2 ajer... Jangan kasi present track suit dah ler...

21.11.08

Al-Fatihah untuk Allahyarhamah Ma..

(Maksu... sebenarnya ida nak tulis dalam komen maksu, tapi rasanya akan panjang berjela macam blog, so ida tulis kat blogla)

(This story was told by my sister, Arfah)
"Kak Da, Ayah tok de masa Ma tak dok. Ayah gi semaye Asar. Balik-balik ore oyak Ma tak dok doh. Ayah cuma kata gini, 'Kakak aku tak dok doh' berulang-ulang kali."

My Ayah lost his mom at a very young age, arwah Ma took care of my Ayah and Ayah Chik. Arwah Ma is more like a mom to my Ayah.

"Ayah oyak maso dio kecik dulu, arwahla hok gosok baju sekoloh dio. Dio tak dok doh la."

Ayah tidak menangis pada hari kematian arwah Ma.

"Ayah, Kak Chique, Che Chik nga Ayah Chik tok cium Ma. Kak Chique nga Che Chik meme tok leh, Kak Da. Ayah Chik tulis Allah nga Muhammad di badan arwah Ma. Ayah pulok oyak ko Umi, Ayah nok bbetul kedudukan arwah Ma sebelum solat jenazah. Meme sie (kesian) sangat tengok maso Ayah bbetul keduduke arwah Ma."

"Mung tau Ayah ata Ma sapa kubur, Kak Da. Jale kaki pulok tu dari rumah Ma."

Yesterday, I called Arfah when I received an sms, "Kak Da, semale lepas tahlil, Ayah menangis teresak-esak."

"Mung tau, semale uje lebat sangat. Tapi Ayah nok gi jugok ngatik. Anok Abe Yen gi ambik Ayah nga Umi, Umi tok leh nok bowok kereta dale uje. Lepah tahlil, ore lain balik belako doh, kiro tinggal family hok dekat2 jah la. Ayah pun start kecek. Dia baru jah nok oyak, 'Ni aku nok oyak ni, arwah Ma tu....', ayah terus menangis. Meme tok rajin tengok ayah teghiok gitu. Semua ore tunduk dan menitiskan air mata. Ayah Chik pun teghiok jugok."

Ayah took some times before he can control himself and continue.

"Sambil teresak-esak Ayah oyak, aku raso srupo arwah ado lagi. Arwah tu nyabar sangat-sangat. Susoh sene dio tok rajin cerite ko ore. Aku nok mung adik-beradik walaupun tak dok ore tuo doh, jange putus hubungan."

Actually, Arfah and me cry a lot through telephone everytime we talked about how humble my arwah Ma was. I've been calling Arfah everyday after arwah Ma's death and then we both will cry when we recalled our times with arwah Ma.

When I can't be on arwah Ma's side on her last day, I feel so upset, took a wudhu', make an Asr prayer and start reciting Yasin. Luckily, non of my sons disturbed me until the end of my doa to arwah Ma.

Yes, I too have a lot of fond memories of my humble Auntie. When I was a little girl, I was closed to Kak Chique. I always stay a few nights at my arwah Ma's house to play with Kak Chique.

When Ayah and Umi went for hajj, arwah Ma always pay us a visit. During weekends she will sleep over at our house.

When my Umi had a 'makan-makan' at our house, she'll be the first one arrived and help with whatever that she could.

When Ayah was attacked with stroke, arwah Ma was the first person Umi called and cry through the phone. Umi turned to arwah Ma a lot of times during her difficult days. Arwah Ma is like an elder sister to my dearest Umi.

And of course will remain in my memory forever, when arwah Ma sent me to UUM when I first got a job. Three of us, arwah Ma, Arfah and me, ride on a bus to stay over at one of Pak Cu Ali's son (I forgot his name..). Arwah Ma kept on making me laughed throughout the journey so that I won't feel bad. My Ayah of course can't send me as he can't sit for a long time while travelling. My Umi had to take care of Abi who just broke his arm after making a good sommersault while playing football. My Umi called arwah Ma to accompany her 'anak dara' as Kedah was not a familiar state among our family members.

Tonite I will ride a bus with my eldest son, abang, to meet arwah Ma's family...and of course to give a hug to my grieving Ayah...

Al-Fatihah...